Skip to main content

Translate

the importance of asking for help

 

            In my previous post I briefly discussed asking for help as a way to help me not get stuck on negative experiences. In this post I will discuss both the importance of asking for help, how to ask for it and who to ask it from. The first thing that I need to do is recognize when it is appropriate to ask for it and the best time to ask for help is usually when I am really stuck on something that is complex to me, or when I need someone else's outside perspective on the subject matter. Following this I ask a trusted family member or professional for their ideas and their perspective on the situation in a way that has humility. Following this I will take the time to listen to what they say and what their thoughts are then take that at face value. Last but not least I will take the time to reflect on what they said to learn how to better myself. therefore by recognizing when I need help I take the time to listen and take the advice that was given to me at face value and I also learn how to better myself in ways that I alone could not have thought of.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

thank you five thousand

            Hello everybody I hope that you're all having a great day I wanted to take the time to thank each and everyone of you for your love and support for my blog James's Notebook. without any of you guys I would not be where I am currently and I'm very grateful for that, it really warms my heart knowing that there is a lot of love from everyone which is why there is going to be a new feature added to my blog and that is translate. which will allow for people across the globe to be able to read James's Notebook and be able to provide people whether they have autism or not a resource so that they could help themselves or their families, friends, or loved ones with autism keep being awesome!

the importance of being straightforward when speaking

                        In a previous post of mine I spoke about the importance of concise speech in this post I will explain why I value being straight forward when I speak. The main reason why I find straight forward communication important is because I take things very literally especially when it comes down to the very small details of how a person communicates with me. The next reason why I value straight forward communication is due to the fact that I have a difficult time with recognizing an individuals tone of voice which makes challenging for me to understand what message a person is trying to convey to me and same is said about social cues or body language. In conclusion the reason why I value straightforward communication is due to the fact that I have a difficult time with understanding what an individual is trying to discuss with me, the fact that i have a difficult time with recognizing social cues.

How I See People

                In my previous post I briefly discussed people and their part in how I see the world in this post I will describe how do I see people and why do I see them this way. The way that I see people is like I said before in my previous post titled "How I See The World" is that they are unpredictable and they could say or do any number of things whether it would be good or bad. Now normally in most circumstances I see people just as well people no color, no religion and not any different about them from me, and the reason why is due to the fact that people could have many differences on the outside but I still see them as a person regardless of their beliefs and their looks. As Martin Luther King Jr. once said "I live to see a day where we are not judged by our color or creed but by our character" that phrase is what I live by and what I use to help me see people as such. Therefore the way that I see people is as individuals that are ...