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how to not get stuck

 

        A challenge that I believe that we all deal with is getting stuck from negative experiences in our lives, in this post I will discuss how do I move on from them. The first step that I take is to forgive, both myself for not having the foresight to recognize what the cause of the issue was and the person that caused the issue, I learned that if I forgive myself and the person I begin to move forwards much faster and I discussed this skills necessity in an old post titled the importance of forgiveness. The next step that I take is to find ways that I can approach the issue in a different way and ask the question "how could I do things better", now this could apply to many things whether it would be at work, school or any number of things. The last step that helps me not get stuck is asking for help if I need it which really can make a difference in seeing how could I  handle the situation differently and how I can see it as a whole. Therefore by forgiving myself for not having the foresight of what could happen I begin to learn new ways to approach the situation and by asking for help I begin to get a more broader view of the issue and learn new ways to approach it.

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