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                A challenge that I have had in my life is respecting another persons choices or opinions. this is challenging for me because I feel that when someone is making a decision I normally think of how their decisions or opinions could affect me, and if the affects are negative towards me I tend to feel frustrated. The way that I have overcame this challenge is to first understand that people some more than others want to do good in their live as I have mentioned in my previous post understanding other peoples perspectives. then the next thing that I need to understand is that if a person has a made up mind then there is usually no point in trying to change their mind, and the reason why that is is because if I try to change their mind it will usually result in that person being more closed off from me. the next thing that i have to remember is that everyone has their own preferences and ideas of what they want to do or have in their lives as i have stated in my previous post how I handle rejection. In conclusion by allowing myself to understand that people have their own preferences and their own wants or needs I avoid getting frustrated at the people that make these types of decisions or opinions which will allow me to move forward in life.

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