James's Notebook

               From my previous post titled How I Make Friends I briefly discussed identifying character in a person. The challenge that I have had with this is that it's challenging for me to realize if that person could add value to me or take away value from me and it could be challenging for me to get to know the individual without judging them. But the way that I have overcame this issue is by listening to their speech and by watching their actions. This is needed for me so that I could recognize the content of their character so that I could identify the individual without judging them. The way that I observe their speech and their actions is by making sure that they both match so that I could be able to identify their character. Then I will take the time to make sure that person is genuine with what they say and what they do by making sure that they follow through with what they say. However I should be cautious of what they say or do becau...

                Hello everyone I hope that you are all having a great day today I have a very important announcement to make and that James's notebook has now officially reached 1,000 readers and that I want to take the time to thank each and every one of you for showing your support to my blog by reading it you are all awesome, as a wise man once said "I live to see a day where we are not judged by our differences but by the content of our character" keep being awesome everyone and stay safe!

                S omething that I have noticed was that I often have a hard time with becoming friends with others, and the reason why this could be challenging for me is because I have a hard time with identifying people that are open to me. The way that I have overcame this issue is by looking for people that have similar interests, and that are like minded with their outlooks on life. following this I usually start conversations with these people and regularly try to interact with them. But I need to remember that everyone's interests are different and people could have different tastes and that it is ok for me to not like everything that they like. But the most important thing that I have to remember is the character of that person because if I don't take the time to recognize that I could end up having the wrong people added into my life.